Lucky Number Two

I’ve been pretty quiet here for a couple of of weeks and that’s because… well, a picture speaks a thousand words.

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Junior took his sweet time popping out — we were in the hospital over a day before he made his grand appearance — but for Juniorette we weren’t sure we’d make it there in time! In the end we checked into the delivery suite just after ten in the evening and the birth was recorded just before eleven.

I’m not sure the midwives realised how close things were when we first arrived. They were fussing around and promising to check on progress and then… there’s a head!

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Less than an hour afterwards I was alone with the baby and mum was walking around, off getting a shower. The contrast with the birth of her brother couldn’t have been greater1.

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Since then things have been (relatively) straight-forward. She’s been remarkably quiet and neat so far. I’m sure she’s saving the worst for when we’re least expecting it!

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Her brother has been great. Very gentle and helpful. The day she arrived home he quickly realised that, as a tiny baby, she’d appreciate all his smallest toys. I could see the logic even as I was terrified at the choke hazard…

Soon I’ll be back at work and then the grandparents will leave. We’ll have two under threes to look after and, I guess, that’s when the real work begins.

  1. Okay, that’s a cliche. Certainly Junior’s birth was harder but it could have been a lot worse. []

Reflection

Sagrada Familia

Last year we went to Barcelona and visited the Sagrada Familia, Gaudi’s amazing, unfinished cathedral. The organ was beautiful but it was difficult to get a picture of, until I realised the Reflection — this weeks PhotoFriday theme — of the stained glass window worked pretty well. (Don’t tell anyone, but my wife zoomed in closer and got a better image that I did.)

Please also vote for my entry in last weeks challenge, “My obsession.” I’m entry number 56.

Failure is an option

My first project out of university was a disaster.

The client was unhappy, technically it was a mess, no one knew what it was supposed to do despite the volume of requirements and functional specification documents and the quality of what was there was terrible. People were working hard but it wasn’t really going anywhere.

All of this, I should note, was happening before I joined. I didn’t realise how bad it really was at the time. The Real World was so different and new from university that I was blinded the problems and just did what I thought was best.

Of course, despite the title of the piece, this isn’t a good option. But that’s not to say that no good came out of the whole process.

Six months, maybe a year, into my time on the project somebody realised that something needed to change. They replaced the project manager with one known inside the company as a “trouble shooter.” And it’s no exaggeration to say that within a few months the project as a whole had been turned around. Indeed, the relationship with the client changed so much we won new business. And a senior manager, after a few drinks, happily sang the praises of this new manager. With the old manager pretty much any discussion by the client would be unquotable on a family website.

The details of what happened are too numerous and it happened far too long ago for me to remember them all anyway. Instead, what I take away from this is (at least) two things.

Firstly, even when things are badly wrong it is possible to turn them around. It can take effort and time that you maybe unwilling or unable to invest, but deliberate change is always possible; just waiting for a miracle or someone to stop paying the invoices is not productive.

Secondly, it has made me try to keep my eyes open, to try to understand what’s going on on the whole project rather than just in my little corner. On that first project, there were talented people doing good work but it wasn’t coordinated and it wasn’t being prioritised correctly. On other projects you see a few bad eggs who (deliberately or not) manage to sour the whole team. And on others there is so much bureaucracy, so much overhead that good people can’t do good work because of all the meetings and paperwork.

Of course, as a small cog in a big machine it is often not possible to actually fix these problems, but an awareness of what’s going on can make it easier to anticipate problems and try to work around the worst aspects. You alone may not be able to make the project a success but you can at least complete your tasks as well as possible.

Webcam

I’m not entirely sure what I was thinking. In about 2005 I bought an iSight, Apple’s relatively short-lived external webcam. It was a beautiful device. Sleek, easy to use and functional.

At least, I think it was functional.

For a device that cost me well over £100 I didn’t really think it through. No one else I knew at the time had a Mac with iChat. Or a webcam.

Before I finally gave in and sold it on eBay I did use it a few times with my then girlfriend (now wife). And it was really nice; like the future. Having grown up with old, slow computers the idea of playing video on them is still slightly magical to me. To have a computer simultaneously record, compress, transmit, receive, decode and display high resolution videos still strikes me as pretty amazing.

Even now, web chatting once a week, I think it’s neat. My son, before he was two, thought nothing of having long, detailed “conversations” with his grandparents. What’s high-tech to me is entirely normal to him.

And all this leads me to my latest technology purchase: a webcam. I got it for two reasons: firstly, I’ve been using my laptop with the lid closed a lot, which means I can’t use its builtin webcam. The second reason: it only cost £5.

I’ve probably already used it more than I ever used the iSight.

Is it as pretty as the iSight? Is it as well made? No and no. But it’s amazing what £5 can get you these days. I added the following as a review:

Considering the cost it’s remarkably well put together, comes with a decent length USB cable, has a flexible stand and works straight out of the box. The LEDs are a bit of a gimmick and the picture quality is a little muddy compared with the built-in camera on my MacBook, but it’s totally usable and easily forgiven given the price.

Webcams have moved from an expensive toy that I wanted to like but couldn’t actually use to a practically disposable tool — I’m sure there are drinks in your favourite coffee chain that cost more — that I use almost daily in less than ten years. I don’t mind being a foolish early adopter if it helps get genuinely useful technology into the hands of more people. If only all my other toys prove to be quite to useful.

Two Years

What a difference two years makes. Just a little over twenty-four months ago we were awaiting the arrival of our son. To commemorate the occasion we went to the park and took a few pictures. The bump, after all, would be short lived.

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Since then we’ve spent a lot of time in the playground where these pictures were taken.

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Last week we did the same thing, now that we’re expecting our daughter in a few weeks. Other than the obvious difference — we had a two year old in tow this time — we had a very different time of year and a change of location — Cannizaro House.

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With six weeks to go, the bump is quite possibly as big as it was at the end of the last pregnancy. This is unfortunate as last time there was no need to run after a very energetic toddler…

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Make that an energetic, wilful and opinionated toddler. This picture is after chasing him around a flower garden for five minutes!

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Still, he stays still for a while when something piques his interest. And, in this respect, you can’t get better than a really good stick.

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With him suitably distracted, we managed to take a few more pictures. It was a nice, bright February day. The light was great.

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And we had a lot of fun taking them. Hopefully it will be good to look back at them in a few years time.

Photography, opinions and other random ramblings by Stephen Darlington